Posted by All Done on March 13, 2004, at 0:56:39
Hi Everyone,
I was telling my T that sometimes I feel he doesn't "get" me. He wanted to take some of the responsibility for this, but, as usual, I would not allow such a thing. It must be my fault since there are things I have not shared with him. It's quite unfair of me to expect him to get me if I haven't provided him with the main tool he uses to understand me. (Gosh, I exhaust myself just *writing* like this, sometimes. Living it is another story.)
So, I felt the need to start a list of things I haven't shared with him, but think I probably should share. Unfortunately, there are more items than I care to admit. Some are probably more important than others, but they are all important in one way or another, so I figure I should share them all.
My question is, should I dump them on him all at once by reading the entire list to him or should I just address one issue at a time? I think the latter option seems the most sensible, but my concern is that I will get sidetracked in subsequent sessions and I'll never get through even half the list.
Any thoughts or suggestions?
Thanks,
All Done
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thread:323840
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