Posted by Dinah on April 26, 2004, at 12:55:06
In reply to Re: Friday ( Am I transfering too?) (Dinah, too) » shadows721, posted by fallsfall on April 26, 2004, at 8:51:16
Falls, I am so sorry. I think I come across as more critical than I feel. Certainly more critical than I mean to be. I suppose part of that is that I'm used to being critical of my own therapist, without meaning any real harm in it. I just like to laugh at his foibles.
I don't remember feeling especially critical of your old therapist either, other than to think that she needed to become internet savvy and learn that everyone googled everyone nowdays.
And then I always feel like being supportive to you, and hate to see you upset. And that might come across as more critical of your therapist than I intend, when I really just want you to see yourself as the terrific person I see.
I do hope I'm smarter than to come between a person and their therapist (or a person and their spouse) except in cases of outright abuse or unethical behavior. You should never have to choose between us, and I hope you don't think of it that way.
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