Posted by cubic_me on May 21, 2004, at 15:09:08
In reply to One T. left/**trigger***?, posted by terrics on May 20, 2004, at 16:33:45
Did you choose to see the DBT T or do you have to see her? In my experience the more someone makes a big deal of my SI, the more hidden it become from them and everyone else. Maybe you could try talking to her about how little going round in circles about your SI is doing you. SI is a coping mechanism, and you need to strengthen your other ones and aquire some more before you able to leave SI for good.
I know that this might be completely counter-productive, but what would happen if you said that you hadn't SIed and hadn't had the urge to? Would she concentrate on the other issues then?
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