Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » B2chica

Posted by partlycloudy on July 30, 2004, at 15:25:59

In reply to Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still, posted by B2chica on July 30, 2004, at 15:05:39

No, it's very true that you can't make him do anything. Are you able to defuse it by making an "appointment" with an agenda to discuss these things - I did that with a previous relationship.
If a discussion is not going to be possible, I would still go ahead and journal on your own. I wouldn't even discuss it if he's truly closed to any conversation about it. And then - I would hide the journal. Put it in the garden shed when you garden, under your feminine protection stuff in the bathroom - even better - in a box of them! What man would willingly go in such a place? It's SO important for you to protect your privacy, in any way possible. That will also let you feel less controlled in this situation.
Just a thought... I have been there and have done this to be able to get things out of my head.
(((b2chica))))

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if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? partlycloudy 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » B2chica partlycloudy 7/30/04
Have you ever heard of Temple Grandin? » B2chica Racer 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » B2chica AuntieMel 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » partlycloudy B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? JenStar 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? JenStar 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » AuntieMel B2chica 7/30/04
Re: Have you ever heard of Temple Grandin? » Racer B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » JenStar B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » B2chica AuntieMel 7/30/04
B2chica..... Susan47 7/30/04
B2chica.....when I don't.... Susan47 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... Susan47 7/30/04
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I'm honoured » B2chica partlycloudy 8/2/04

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