Posted by TofuEmmy on September 12, 2004, at 11:20:25
In reply to MESSED UP!!, posted by toomuchpain on September 12, 2004, at 9:23:08
TMP - Beneath all that confusion there still is a bright young woman. I completely believe that you already know the answers to your questions.
I know that you desire a life that is happier and healthier. I'm pretty sure you know that a happy healthy life for a young woman doesn't include a married former therapist as her boyfriend? Agreeing with me on that? :-) I'm thinking you already know that, huh?
And about not having any support, and not being in therapy? What's up with that? You had a pretty serious suicide attempt not that long ago. So, again...let's ponder that. Does it make sense for a young woman who was dragged through an emotional meat grinder by her former therapist and a lousy MH agency, and had a serious attempt, to NOT have a therapist??? Umm.....nope. And I think you know that too, right?
So your only source of support is us?? Now, Babblers are wonderous, but we're not enough. You need IRL support by your side sweetie. Please, oh please, get yourself back to a competent therapist.
Please try to re-think your feelings about your former therapist. I know the heart is a complicated place and you are confused. Please try to look at this man and what he has done to you. Is he a respectable and loving man? You deserve that kind of man, and no less.
Love yourself first. Take care of YOU. Surround yourself with people who want only the best for you. Sorry to be blunt, but I'm not seeing how he fits into that picture.
Please keep posting, TMP. I do so worry about you. I truly care about you and your happiness.
Emmy
poster:TofuEmmy
thread:389943
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