Posted by antigua on October 17, 2004, at 10:17:55
In reply to Re: your T » shrinking violet, posted by Pfinstegg on October 15, 2004, at 22:21:13
Give her one more chance. Print out one of these emails and just give it to her. What do you have to lose? If you like her so much personally, it's worth one more try. Also, please, please don't assume that if you have trouble opening up to this T that you will run into the same situation w/another. It doesn't necessarily work that way.
I know what you mean about wishing she would/could keep quiet for a few minutes while you pulled yourself together to find the words. I ask my T to be quiet if I feel the need to do that. (She doesn't talk too much but sometimes she gets excited and keeps going when I find the need to focus more intently on something.)
You have nothing to lose. Let her know how you feel. Put it in writing if that's easier.
good luck,
antigua
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