Posted by B2Chica on February 5, 2005, at 19:27:55
ok, this is a sensitive question- both my asking and those reading. and i caution all those for most likely trigger.
you would think at my age i should know this answer. and i should...i think i do. but i don't. i need to ask it and i just Can't do it with my current T.(other story).
well, the last couple times i've had sex with my husband (which has not been often-once in december and the time before was last august...yes, my poor hubby...but) both times it's hurt (a lot). more than it usually does, to be descriptive it hurt the entire duration.
it's made me question...and really need to ask ya'lls opinion.i guess my question to the girls is...does sex always hurt a little?
-for me it always does, but it's always at the 'beginning'. my hubby is very considerate and learned very quickly that we can't..."get off to a quick start", he has to enter very slowly and start/stay slow for a bit till it stops hurting. but the last two times it's hurt the duration
and i just need to ask this, cuz i'm now thinking that well, that the pain is connected to...well..."past" issues that i'm not 'dealing with'.
of course that would be a logical conclusion, but maybe...well, i just wanted to know from others who understand....is it cuz i'm too tense? is it just the way i'm made? is it partly psychological?
does it always hurt a little?if this were anywhere else but babble i would feel completely humiliated and like a complete idiot. i hope i don't sound like one.
b2c.
poster:B2Chica
thread:453758
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20050129/msgs/453758.html