Posted by 10derHeart on February 7, 2005, at 23:11:59
In reply to Loving my Therapist, posted by Susan47 on February 7, 2005, at 19:23:47
This sounds so very NOT-whacky to me, I can hardly put it into words.
Although the nature of my feelings for my ex-T. aren't like yours in SOME ways....we seem to have had some strikingly similar episodes and the intensity - we are on the same wavelength there. At least I think so from what I've read here. It's further confirmed by how often a phrase or description of yours moves me to tears instantly.
So based on what we have in common with fomer T's, this is an awesome post. Particularly striking were your words about loving without expectation. Shoot, Susan, you've been been loving your kids like that all your life, right? So that makes you somewhat of an expert!
This post lifted me up on a night where I was feeling weak and uncertain, daydreaming too much about how things were before he had to move and I was forced to accept this situation... <sigh>
Sure, you might change your mind tomorrow, but you also might change it back again the next day.
Great post, and I thank you for it.
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