Posted by shrinking violet on February 9, 2005, at 9:56:17
In reply to Re: Fired pdoc, told T none of her business (long) » Poet, posted by fallsfall on February 9, 2005, at 9:45:50
Wow Falls.....I feel the exact same way! Which is probably why I push my T and my team away so forcefully, and why I can be so "stubborn" and resistant to anything they try to do to help. It *does* take a lot of "forcing," at least for me....and even then I haven't been able to tell my T much, at least not verbally. I'm going to try harder, though. I think I am slowly realizing that maybe I haven't done such a great job in taking care of myself all of this time (well, I did what I had to do, but now those defenses are building up on me), and I need to put some faith and trust in others who MIGHT know a BIT more than I do. ;-)
Thanks for your post.
And Poet.....I'm sorry if my response was off the mark. It is possible your pdoc isn't right for you, and I may have been pushing my tendency to resist onto you. I hated my first pdoc, but I really like my current one....she's knowledgeable and caring and sweet, and I'm trying to give her a chance, which I guess is what I was asking you of yours. Do what's best for you, of course.Take care.
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