Posted by Toph on February 17, 2005, at 16:56:36
In reply to Re: Quick Thought, posted by Susan47 on February 17, 2005, at 16:30:59
Susan, I agree with pinkeye that you need to be more grounded about this. Is this guy really as perfect as you think he is? Haven't you gone a little overoard in your idealization of him? Maybe you should try to separate what is real about him from what you have inflated because you miss him so. Do you actually miss him or what you ideally wanted him to be for you? I may be wrong but this obssesion is distracting you from seeing what a great mom you are, what a great friend you are to people here, and, dammit, what a great person you are.
Toph
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