Posted by LittleGirlLost on February 18, 2005, at 12:37:16
In reply to Re: T and Valentine's Day » LittleGirlLost, posted by LG04 on February 17, 2005, at 1:48:50
> just know that you are definitely not alone on this one.
>LG04,
Thank you so much for sharing that with me. I am so embarrassed to say I feel the same way. I am jealous of her husband and everyone else who knows her. I am jealous of their sexual relationship, but like you said, not about the sex, but about the emotional closeness. What can be more emotionally close than that!? But at the same time, there is a part of me that also feels scared about her having sex with him. I'm afraid he is going to hurt her, and I don't want anyone to hurt MY THERAPIST! I try to tell myself that they are married and it's different... actually I can't think about that for long. It's mainly the emotional closeness of sex.
So you have talked to your T about this? That's awesome! How did she react? I'm afraid to tell her this... not even the sex part, but just the whole jealousy!
LGL
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