Posted by daisym on February 23, 2005, at 0:29:38
In reply to Re: Making mountains out of mole hills » daisym, posted by Dinah on February 22, 2005, at 22:03:47
I guess I'm not use to probing this hard into someone else's feelings. Usually I get a good sense of where someone is and I can manuever pretty well to meet their needs. Since this is about me, he doesn't share his needs with me. He admits to getting frustrated when he can't reach me, when I'm tangled up or pulling away. But he says the frustration is around wanting to re-establish the connection so we have the same goal.
It's like the sensitivity factor has been knocked up 1000 times stronger and I'm clearly devastated by the slightest waver. He tells me this is old, that I'm trying to predict the future based on my perceptions of his feelings.
I'm driving myself crazy.
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