Posted by fallsfall on May 2, 2005, at 18:17:43
In reply to Oh my head. SEXUAL TRIGGER or something, posted by Dinah on May 2, 2005, at 12:19:12
This sounds like important stuff, Dinah. Good for you for tackling it.
What would it mean to you if you DID have "that"?
What are the advantages to you of not having that?
What are the disadvantages to you of not having that?
I think that the facts about your anatomy are not particularly important. What is important is how you feel about what you consider to be "normal" female anatomy, and how you feel about your anatomy.
What do you see as the purposes of the female anatomy?
How does what you see as your anatomy differ as far as those purposes go?
If you could magically change your anatomy to be "normal", would you? Why?
Don't give up yet. This is a complex issue for you. It is hard for you to explain and understand and it will be hard for him to understand, too.
Just try to get him to see things more symbolically. I think that is where the issues are. It may take a while to figure out what this all means to you, but based on what I have seen you say about yourself, I think it is important. So don't give up!!!
I'll get my p*m-p*ms if it would help.
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