Posted by JenStar on May 23, 2005, at 15:14:33
In reply to Nightmares about my ex T - transference?, posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 15:06:14
hi Pinkeye,
I'm sorry about the nightmares! It sounds to me like you're going through an emotional upheaval - you're stirring up all kinds of feelings and thoughts that were sort of "under wraps" for years. It sounds from all your posts (not just this one) that you're thinking about serious issues - going to India, whether you're happy with your husband, what kind of relationship is right for you, and whether you had mutual respect with your T. These are huge, difficult questions, and it's no surprise that asking them will be difficult and will make your emotions go haywire for a while.I'm hoping, though, that as you start to find the answers, everything will even out.
I think all of us are childlike at time, needing comfort, crying when we're sad/scared. And that's OK. I hope you can also find it within yourself to be the adult too, and take care of yourself the way you deserve.What is your T situation like now? Is there a current T who can help you through this?
thinking of you!
jenStar
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