Posted by Dinah on July 27, 2005, at 13:13:50
In reply to Didn't understand T's questions or comments, posted by annierose on July 26, 2005, at 22:17:54
My mama taught me that it was impolite to talk about how much something cost. Ok, she taught me by letting me see people's reactions when she did it, but I learned nevertheless.
I get it a lot regarding my son's school, and I never get to the point where I don't get defensive about it. Because we're not rich. We just really value a good education, and drive old cars etc.... Oh wait. I'm being defensive again. :D
Maybe ShortE was right, and she just doesn't understand. Or maybe she's a bit jealous that she could never pull it off. My therapist actually sounded a bit jealous of me about one particular thing, so I think it's possible.
But whatever her motivation, it doesn't sound therapeutic or polite.
On the other hand, if we didn't forgive them the occasional faux pas, we wouldn't be able to get along with anyone on earth. :)
poster:Dinah
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