Posted by cricket on July 28, 2005, at 9:44:32
In reply to Just to add .., posted by rabble_rouser on July 28, 2005, at 6:25:06
Hi Rabble,
I think that on the issue of sexual feelings for our Ts, we women at Babble are really all over the map. So I'm sure you'll get a lot of different responses.
As for me, there are definitely sexual feelings there at times. Not overwhelming and certainly nothing I would ever want to act on. It's funny because I've had my fair share of sex (okay probably more than my fair share) with more men than I would ever want to count and I've never had anything approaching the closeness I've had with my therapist. So for me, sex would be a big step backwards on the intimacy scale.
Of course, most of us never really know how our Ts feel in that regard and I guess that's okay. Once in a while, there is a bit of mild flirtation on my T's part, just enough to let me know that he doesn't find me completely repulsive.
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