Posted by Susan47 on July 28, 2005, at 23:47:16
In reply to Re: Susan, posted by Jadah on July 28, 2005, at 18:27:50
I don't believe my opinion has changed any, really, because I've always thought what he's doing isn't right, but I also understand why you're doing what you are, because that's what I wanted so much. Still do. I was lapping up every detail of what you wrote, because I was in fantasy-land. I encouraged you to tell, because it helped me believe it might be possible, it made me feel euphoric .. but that doesn't mean I thought it was ever right. I know it sounds strange. But what's right isn't always what's in my heart, either. I would still love to have a fling with my ex-T. And in fact if he ever indicated he would see me, I'd fly at the chance, even just to be a "friend".. which would also most likely be the wrong thing to do. Your T's wife being a therapist does put a different spin on it. My goodness, maybe she doesn't believe in therapy either :] ...
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