Posted by LadyBug on December 6, 2005, at 20:36:44
In reply to Dear Dr. B,, posted by happyflower on December 6, 2005, at 11:17:02
I'm in a simular situation as you, but my T. isn't the only one telling me to leave. Its all so complicated and such a hard decision to make. Once you do it, it's forever, no turning back. I have a lot of fear going on and I know I want to leave. I can't stay in this blankety blank marriage the rest of my life, I'm too sad in it and I've been too hurt over many things I don't think I can ever overcome. Too many things have happened and I'll never trust him again, he isn't trust worthy!!! And there's no hope he ever will be.
I know your T. will be there for you no matter what. You have to do it in your time, I understand that totally!! I'm thinking of just getting through the holidays and then making a decision sometime early next year. I don't know how I'll survive financially or I'd leave today, or should I say, kick him out!! The love is gone!
Good luck and say what you feel. He'll understand and help you though it.
Hugs
LadyBug
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