Posted by fairywings on January 5, 2006, at 15:17:19
In reply to I broke down and called him, posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 13:44:09
I'm glad you called. Just getting it off your chest might help. If you go to your appt., please don't let him make his shortness with you be your fault. He should own his mistake, and please don't let him take your sense of worth away from you. You are worth more than this one relationship. The fact that you are angry is good, keeps you in there fighting. As much as I hate that, I think we either fight, turn inward, or quit.
My ex T made a mistake, and wouldn't own up to it, he even said.."I could defend myself, but..." Then he basically blew off the fact that he broke the boundaries of good therapy. So, if you go, maybe think about what you want to say to him, and say what's eating you. Maybe if you go hearing him out, after you tell him how you feel, will soften you, maybe not. I hope you go, I hope it works out for the best.
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