Posted by john berk on May 5, 2006, at 15:20:21
In reply to Re: x-plicit...sick thoughts *may trigger*, posted by Karolina on May 4, 2006, at 23:15:13
Hi Karolina,
i just wanted to put my 2 cents in, i have ocd, and like Bents "T' said, thoughts are not right or wrong, they are just thoughts", applies double to myself and others with ocd, we try so hard to weed out the "right" thoughts from the "wrong?", and wind up totally obsessing.i don't think anything you said about your thoughts sounds sick in the least, and as far as fantasy, those thoughts are the hardest to "control", and why should they be under control, it is just that, "fantasy".
my brother is expeirencing the exact same problem at the moment, analyzing his fantasy's and thinking himself less a person for sexual thoughts he has, but we have discussed it ad naseum, lol, and i beleive he finally realizes that like my "T" once told me, "take nothing for granted in the realm of sexuality",
any thought or fantasy you have is probably pretty much universal at some point in others minds!!!
please be well, and think good things about yourself, you sound quite normal but struggling, i wish you happiness...john
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