Posted by B2chica on May 24, 2006, at 12:43:50
In reply to my T called, posted by happyflower on May 24, 2006, at 12:23:01
well i'm GLAD he called you back. i think you Really need the support right now and that supercedes Anything else.
and i remember my T Hated talking on the phone. he used to comment on it in session that if he could get away with never talking on the phone he would. so try not to read too much into the short reply.and i'm sure you are still really hurt and confused from all this 'outside' relationship stuff that's been going on. try not to read too much into him right now. focus on you and your problems. talk to him about them. to act unfeeling is one thing, but if you feel he isn't paying attention, or isn't giving you good advice or feedback, then i'd say start moving on sooner rather than later.
but right now you need support and for better or worse he seems to be the best one for the job.
go see him.
and HF, please be good to yourself.take a hot bubble bath tonight and each chocolate cookies and fudge ice cream.
(((((((((((((((HF))))))))))))))))
b2c
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