Posted by wishingstar on January 5, 2007, at 10:44:31
In reply to Re: My session today (long) » wishingstar, posted by muffled on January 4, 2007, at 23:14:58
> **not sad at all. You are working on stuff.
> >
***thank you muffled.>
> **Dumpmeitis. I used to have a major case of that SO regularly, and myT would reassure me each time (she has the patience of a saint TG). It helped. I didn't need a song and dance bout WHY, I JUST needed reassurance. This is LONG, but I trying to explain it right, cuz it was a BIG deal to me.
> >Yes.. I know exactly what you mean. I guess that's where I am too. I know all the right words, I know what shes going to say.. I know that the truth is (that she could get killed driving home or any other thing). I know. I just need some reassurance. Maybe it's something for me to talk to her more about later, but I dont know, she didnt seem like she'd be getting any more reassuring than she was Thurs. But I think that reassurance can come other ways, just as the relationship grows, so I hope that happens. I love the term "dumpmeitis". Thats exactly it. :) For some of us though, because of childhoods/psych therapists potentially named Anne/etc, dumpmeitis is more like a recurrent illness, so we're always on the look out for symptoms, even though the dr swears we're immunized. Hah. That's how I feel anyway.
> **LOL, hope so! Wind warnings! Rain! HA! But I living large, there's a FURNACE in the trailer and it works good!
Boy that sure sounds nice! lol enjoy! :)
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