Posted by LadyBug on January 18, 2007, at 22:24:57
In reply to can you like your T too much?, posted by sunnydays on January 18, 2007, at 20:11:48
I've wondered the same thing for many years. I love my T and can't imagine my life not seeing her. I'm not quite as obsessed as I used to be, but I still think about her so much. She enters my mind all the time. I think it's part of what happens when we need to heal. She used to tell me that my love for her was ok, that it wouldn't hurt her. But I know too that it has scared her at times, and me too. I put her on a pedestal and she says that is not good because she isn't perfect.
I think the sooner you accept the fact that you like your T so much, the better able you will be to accept it. Don't fight it, just give into it and tell yourself it's alright. Because it is. They become pretty important to us. It's ok.
LadyBug
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