Posted by Llurpsie_Noodle on January 19, 2007, at 17:40:16
In reply to Confronting mothers stuff » Llurpsie_Noodle, posted by littleone on January 19, 2007, at 17:03:29
Yep,
red flags go up for me when I write about this stuff.Here's some more red flag-worthy thoughts.
I want her to comfort me and cuddle me.
I don't trust her to be there for me.
I don't tell her when I'm hurting.
I expect her to know when I'm hurting.yep. all of those are true.
I've never talked with my T about parts of me. Younger parts and such. We talk about how the reactions I have to certain circumstances may have been the best way for me to survive as a child but that they are maladaptive right now.
I'm not having a very stable day, so I'm not going to think about these issues right now beyond the very surface that I'm aware of and can see.
More later... thanks again for your insights. I'm sorry that I cannot do them justice, but I'm keeping my heart under lock and key this weekend.
-Ll
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