Posted by inimitable on January 28, 2007, at 19:35:55
In reply to Re: Sex with therapist))Elaine, posted by Dis Traught on January 28, 2007, at 14:58:24
oh wow! well, way back when i first started therapy (a year ago, just about exactly), a couple months in i started feeling for my T. he is only a grad student at my university, so he's only a couple years older than me, and very cute. and this past summer was especially agonizing...i was pineing over him, aching deep inside because i knew i could never be with him, either sexually or hanging out after session! but i've gotten past that, and these past few months have been especially hard for me, seeing as how i was suicidal (with serious thought) for the first time in my life....and it felt great having my T around....i would be dead without him i am sure. so yes, i am sooo glad nothing ever happened between us, because, well, now i love him, i think, in a way so powerful....and by me being able to trust him, i'm learning that i could possibly feel this way for someone else, romantically.
i am sorry for your experience, gosh, it must be so hard to even imagine tryng therapy again, with your experience, but not all of them will be like your old one!
*inimitable
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