Posted by wishingstar on March 14, 2007, at 19:25:24
In reply to Re: saw Laurie (one more thing), posted by wishingstar on March 14, 2007, at 18:49:46
I figure if I'm making a thread out of all my unrelated ramblings (as I seem to be), I want to add one more thing. I think I may have just stumbled upon something that explains a LOT.
I was googling (bad? eh) my old T Anne. I hadnt done it in quite a long time, but I was just feeling curious, I guess. I ran across something I dont recall seeing before, or maybe it just never clicked, I'm not sure.
Her father apparently died in Jan of last year 2006. The obituary was one of the hits on google. Jan is right around the time things started to take a turn for the worst with the therapy.. and they just got progressively harder from there.. Jan, Feb.. problems but not terrible.. March, getting pretty bad.. etc.
Could it be that her fathers death triggered a change in HER and thats what started the cycle? No doubt that the cycle was continued by things between us, because it did get worse from there, but maybe that was part of it. I;ve never understood why she seemed to be a different therapist those last 6 months or so than she'd been in the past. She just never seemed to "get it" or really hear me.. and I felt like she had before.. but I just assumed it was because I was feeling worse and so I needed something different from her that she couldnt (wouldnt?) give. But maybe that wasnt it at all.
Or maybe not. It said her father lived in Pa so I guess they werent that close? Who knows. But its possible.
Now, someone kick me for still thinking about this woman.
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