Posted by Honore on September 7, 2007, at 14:20:38
In reply to Re: And I quit group... » Racer, posted by Poet on September 7, 2007, at 13:33:31
Your T must have been desperate to resort to 'you can help the group"-- that's not your job. If it isn't good for you to be in a group with that woman-- myself having had that experience with someone in a group-- it isn't. They can handle their own feelings on their own.
I say you get tons of extra credit-- for sticking with what you need, for not feeling like you had to give your T what she needed, or do what she wanted, so she wouldn't think badly of you.
I say it's a huge step forward. Could be the leaving the group this way is the best thing you get from the group? maybe that's not fair-- but it's pretty great. It's really hard to stick with/up for yourself.
Honore
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