Posted by Bodhisattva on February 5, 2008, at 23:24:13
In reply to Delicate Topic may require a trigger for some as s, posted by Phillipa on February 4, 2008, at 12:38:05
Yes, you're weird. Please join the club and receive a free combination pogo-stick-clock-radio-toaster-oven-crowbar-spatula as a welcome gift.
*note: batteries not included and may cause dry mouth, stock market crash, and in rare cases possible artificial insemination.
Seriously though. Sex and pleasure are often very tricky things to get in combination. For animals, it is a thing done only for reproduction. Entirely business-like, absolutely no frills.
For us, our brains are much more involved. Which makes stress, preconceptions, and any other random thoughts a factor. This sounds like something that will be a serious hurdle for you. And I say this because it IS important. You're missing out on feeling something that is entirely beyond words( not to mention all the funny faces ).
I'm sure there is a solution, just keep looking.
Have you had a serious discussion about this with your partner?
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