Posted by Abby Cunningham on March 10, 2008, at 12:40:27
In reply to She called, posted by crushedout on March 9, 2008, at 22:58:12
After my experience, being taken by surprise and terminated before I could take a deep breath, at least your T wants to talk.
I would listen to what she has to say, try not to harden your heart too much but I understand the desire to not get hurt any more! At least she is willing to talk about it. No one can tell you exactly what to say because it depends on what she says. If she apologizes, well think about what you will say do (in advance). My heart goes out to you. I am still hurting some but have ups and downs. You will get through this and if it is ending, you will find another T who is better suited to you, I am sure.
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> No apology. Just urged me to come in so we could sort out "this misunderstanding." I am so furious. I guess I will go in and get it off my chest. It will give me closure if nothing else. But I am going in armed with no expectation of an apology. No. I can't do it. I expect an apology and I will be devastated (literally) if I do not get one.
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> But either way, I think I should plan on tomorrow being our last session. :(
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> This is very painful and awful but I'll get through it.
poster:Abby Cunningham
thread:816858
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