Posted by Dinah on May 27, 2008, at 13:51:28
In reply to T getting married, posted by myrtledog on May 27, 2008, at 8:19:45
You do have a lot going on with her. If I remember correctly, she's moving soon and you'll lose her at that time, but that she'll have to quit seeing you earlier than that because her daughter is ill. And now she's getting married?
That a lot to take in at once. Her life is definitely changing, and that change is affecting you whether she wants it to or not.
My first reaction was to wonder why she couldn't have kept that private until August, since she'll be leaving then anyway. But I suppose that would be impossible to any but the most blank of blank slate therapists.
My therapist got married during the course of our therapy. It was an unwelcome intrusion of his life into our therapy. And it caused me to see him in ways I just didn't want to see him. He's my therapist mommy not someone's husband/lover! I dealt with it by dreaming his new wife told me he was a eunuch.
I can understand why you're upset. I really am sorry all this is hitting you at once.
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