Posted by Lemonaide on July 25, 2008, at 23:20:05
My T said he was going to try to meet with my T, so hopefully I will know something next session. I didn't go to the gym today, I didn't want to deal with possibly seeing my T's. Well the real reason is that I did a ton of gardening the day before and I have thorns in my hands and feet. grrrrrrrrrr.
I told my T that I hope that their meeting will not change our relationship (me and current T's) He said not to worry about it. He said he knows me and what my old T says won't change how he views me. My current T does know more about me than anyone. But I just feel anxious of them talking to each other, I feel anxious if I will talk to my old T. I have to decide what exactly I want from him. But there is also a chance that my T will think I shouldn't meet with my old T. I told him I would accept what he thinks is best. I know he is looking out for me, so I trust that.
A new cute thing we do now, since we talk about the old Bob Newhart Show. At the end of the session I ask, Time's Up? We always laugh at that, my T wishes it was that easy with all his clients. I was even in tears one time, I knew we ran out of time, and I could tell he knew, but wasn't sure how to end it. So I got up to the edge of my chair, and said Time's Up? I love that we have inner jokes like that. I have good boundaries with him and I like that. I wish you all could meet him. ;-)
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