Posted by stellabystarlight on July 27, 2008, at 11:09:52
I have such a strong urge to dress provocatively in therapy, and I know I should discuss this with my t. I'm afraid of what he might say. He has told me not to be overly seductive and dress more conservatively at one time, but then has also told me that I'm very sexy and I always look great. Confusing.
I have a new t that I'm seeing now to help me leave my old t, but I'm finding myself starting to do the same thing with him.
Part of me feels that it's ok to dress anyway I want to as I feel it's a way of displaying my thoughts that need to be analyzed...but then feel like I should control myself.
Have you displayed seductive behavior your T, and if so what was the your T's response? What should be the proper response?
Just writing this post makes me see that my sense of boundary is not too solid.
Any feedback would be appreciated.
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