Posted by Amanda29 on August 9, 2008, at 21:12:38
In reply to Re: Do you think T analyzes everything in session?, posted by Dinah on July 23, 2008, at 20:24:52
My T is very sneeky in how he analyzes things...he will notice the slightest thing and then a few weeks later he will bring it to my attention.
I do group therapy with him and 2 other people every other week and I have this thing where when someone is talking I get this glazed over look and I zone out... I didnt think he noticed because I only did it once or twice but 2 weeks later I commented about it to him and he was like yeah...I noticed...and I was so surprised...I thought he wasnt paying attention to me at the time...but we were trying to figure out why I do that and I have no idea.
I do know he watches me fiddle with things...I get really anxious and mess with my keys or with the pillows AND..oh I know he notices this..this is major...I dont have good eye contact with him at all..and I never look at him when I am talking ...I wish I could ..but I have never had good eye contact with anyone. He has like 4 pillows on his couch and whenever I go in for the session I sit in the same spot on the couch, I grab the SAME pillow, and I sit it on my lap as a "barrier" between me and him. (HE HAS NOTICED ALL OF THIS and I am sure he analzyes this to pieces...but that is ok. :)
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