Posted by antigua3 on September 23, 2008, at 8:46:21
In reply to Missing Shell?, posted by turtle on September 20, 2008, at 22:25:37
Welcome to Babble! love your name, too.
You said, "I know Im supposed to talk to her about this, but Im not sure yet if I can. This make me want to pull back and I feel like I just cant do this. The desire to run away is intense."
I just wanted to say that i've learned that this is a very common feeling--once we open up, we want to run and hide. It's even proven in the literature! We're afraid that we'll be hurt for what we've said. A good T will teach you that's not true.
I still haven't gotten this process together yet. I blurt and run; and then have to re-build the relationship with my pdoc.
Sounds like you have a great T.
Again, welcome, and I'm so glad you're posting.
antigua
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