Posted by seldomseen on November 6, 2008, at 17:10:41
In reply to Re: My husband doesn't get it » DAisym, posted by Partlycloudy on November 6, 2008, at 16:56:16
"I made the analogy of feeling like a bird with a broken wing, that needs to be held tenderly and firmly, so that it doesn't batter itself against its cage and injure itself further. That's pretty much where I am right now."
That's a GREAT analogy for CSA memory and processing. It's perfect. You're scared out of your mind, you hurt and you just to be anywhere else. I get that.
Your husband may never get it, but that's not your concern right now. It would be FANTASTIC if he could come on board, but he may not. Sigh.
This is a lonely road we travel, but there are those who have traveled it before and those who are on that road just a little ahead of you.
Rest your head as best you can, we understand. We will support you.
Peace and love to you.
Seldom.
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