Posted by antigua3 on June 15, 2009, at 12:31:07
In reply to Re: can someone tell me how they felt -experience » antigua3, posted by garnet71 on June 14, 2009, at 18:41:05
Yes, I've felt that concrete wall, but I've learned that most of that wall was put up by me and not him. He does play a role, but I tried to keep him at arm's length as long as I could, but that wall is crumbling. It's scary and very painful for me, but it needs to be done. He's not the warm and fuzzy type, either...
A good therapist knows about the overpowering transference and recognizes that it is a huge part of therapy. Yours really should understand this, with all of his years of experience. But, of course, nobody can predict what another human being will do, but I would tend to think you'll be OK. I really hope you'll be OK.
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