Posted by psychmom on June 16, 2009, at 19:53:26
Today's session was very draining on us both. I have never seen him like this. He is going through some physcial issues that can be life threatening if he doesn't take care of himself. He admitted some things I have known, but it was nice hearing them.
I am not romanticly in love with him, but I care deeply for him. He has been my parental figure in a way. He has taught me how to grow up and see things in a different way. He care deeply for me, and it is an extremely difficult relationship.
I know i have to utilize the tools we talked about today. I don't want to cause him anymore stress. I wish i could do something for him, but nothing i can do. I gave him a big hug at the end. Yep, boundaries were crossed; i emailed him and told him i had to because it looked like he needed it... He did...
Feel so sad and wish i could do something....
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