Posted by Kenya on June 17, 2009, at 13:07:40
Hi Everyone,
I've been kind of M.I.A. lately, but I wanted to see if anyone can answer a quick question.
I usually see my T every Tuesday and Saturday. During the summer, my job gets hectic and I need to reschedule every once in a while. I used to just cancel because I thought that was easier for her, but she said she doesn't want me to miss sessions, so I should reschedule.
This week will be the third time in the past couple of months that I've needed to reschedule. She has also rescheduled appointments, and shown up late twice. I always call way more than 24 hours before my appt. Lately, she hasn't been responding, resulting in a follow up call from me the day before my next appt, saying "i never heard from you about rescheduling. I will plan on seeing you tomorrow unless I hear otherwise."
I called her on Monday morning, told her that I couldn't make it Tuesday and I would love to reschedule because I'm having a rough couple of weeks, and I will be gone for 10 days starting this weekend. I told her I was available for a mid-day session or evening session any other day this week.
I haven't heard from her at all, and knowing her, if I haven't heard from her by now, I probably won't. She used to call me back right away, and always seemed like she wanted to see me, talk to me.. just cared, you know?
So here's my question (sorry it wasn't so quick)... Do you think she's just lost interest in me or gotten too comfortable? It's been almost 2 years, and it just seems like she doesn't want to see me or hear from me anymore. It's' a weird feeling. I'm not usually very needy. I'm just trying to interpret her response...
Thanks for reading...
~ Kenya
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thread:901542
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