Posted by workinprogress on July 3, 2009, at 18:56:57
In reply to Re: If you could ask 3 questions..., posted by Dinah on July 3, 2009, at 14:08:40
Interesting. I've been thinking in this mode a bit lately. Last year I decided it was weird that I was so close to this person, yet we'd never shared a meal. And, I wanted to celebrate our year together and what I'd learned. So- we had an anniversay "outing"- a picnic in the park. Monday we are repeating the event in honor of our second anniversary.
So- I decided I wanted to ask her a few questions. There's two I plan on asking her:
1) what have you learned from me?
2) why, when you seem so together, did you stay so long with your ex?And then there's the one I won't ask because I just kind if know it's off limits.
What was it you worked so hard on in your therapy (she often says "I know what it's like to sit there, I've been there"- she spent 14 years in therapy), what were your challenges/issues?
Maybe I'll cheat and ask: how do my life lessons and challenges intersect with yours?
I'll let you all know how it plays out- but maybe I'll get some good ideas from this thread- it's a good one daisy!
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