Posted by Jazzed on June 24, 2005, at 19:18:16 [reposted on June 26, 2005, at 1:25:09 | original URL]
In reply to pbc » Jazzed, posted by justyourlaugh on June 23, 2005, at 23:43:07
> i would be hurt if you posted this about my husband..
> you were "being judgemantal"...
> never dismiss ones feelings as you would not want someone to do the same to you..
> just a thought..
> j
I'm sorry if I came off as being judgemental. I wouldn't want my husband judged either. If woolav's hubby posts, I won't dismiss his feelings, but I don't know his feelings. I can only hear what woolav has said. I feel bad for anyone who has to live with shame from their illness, esp. when a loved one won't "let it go". (my mom was a classic at this, so I can see her POV) She has apologized to him, feels bad, regrets her actions, is living with shame, what more does she have to do? I don't feel his "actions" are mature, supportive, or helpful. I guess I should've separated the man from his actions.I apologize woolav, I shouldn't have judged your hubby.
Jazzy
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