Posted by Pritzker on October 10, 2000, at 20:51:04
In reply to Re: Medical fantasies and the cute Dr.H, posted by Mark H. on October 10, 2000, at 20:07:50
> Mark,
Thank you so much for posting a follow-up. I still have some time before devoting myself to a life-long career. I would whole-heartly welcome all and any responses from the general public. It feels good to stand as is in the general public because for a long time, I internally know how I feel; but I know that it would be frowned upon. Thank you for being honest and insightful. That is exactly what I need to hear. This is a great bulletin!
Cordially,
PritzkerDear Pritzker,
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> Your self-statements suggest to me that you might want to look for other fields in which to train.
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> You wrote, "Relationships for me has always been established on the basis of self-interest and personal goals. To give up my selfishness would be to loose my hold on my personhood."
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> The waning of personal ambition and self-interest is the beginning of compassion. In the end, little else counts except what we have given to and done for others. To whatever extent what you are doing is "about you," it is not about helping others. Unfortunately, there are already too many doctors, social workers and psychologists who do not understand this.
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> I strongly recommend that you print out your letter and share it with your therapists, bring them into your trust, and trust them with your fantasies.
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> You are wonderfully honest and courageous in asking for realistic feedback. I hope my taking you at your word by responding this way is not offensive to you.
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> Sincerely,
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> Mark H.
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