Posted by krazy kat on June 22, 2002, at 15:14:11
In reply to Re: Why do I dislike my husband after 34 years? » Mandy, posted by Phil on June 22, 2002, at 11:49:24
i have only read phil's first response so please keep that in mind.
I like his comments a great deat, except for:
"I have no experience to work from but I would certainly get a divorce if I was unhappy to the point of suicide. If you and he can't work things out then maybe separate for a few months."
It doesn't sound to me like the marriage is what is causing the suicidal tendencies. The move was a trigger for your depression, imho, and not letting out your anger is compounding it.
Please, please go to couples therapy and get eh book I recommended on the faith board, Mood Swings, the Christian Dr.'s approach to depression. I really think it will help.
It's your depression talking right now, not you, again imho.
- kk
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