Posted by Kath on August 29, 2002, at 16:54:08
In reply to it's okay - allowed - to feel lonely, posted by Medusa on August 28, 2002, at 4:37:26
> I don't know why I have such issues with this. Well. My parents told me it was bad to "need friends". And that my mother should be my best friend, and if I couldn't be friends with her, I must not need friends.
What a most extraordinarily unhealthy thing to be told!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No darn wonder you have issues! I am really sorry that your parents told you that. Sounds like manipulation of the largest sort.
Do you think that you still believe what they told you?
hugs, Kath
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