Posted by Dinah on October 4, 2002, at 17:07:34
In reply to Re: secrets---Dinah , posted by Mashogr8 on October 4, 2002, at 15:26:52
I told him about the SI, and he wasn't all that upset or surprised given the deeper emotions we were accessing. And he also seemed (maybe) to understand why I wanted to back off from it. At any rate, he didn't fuss. I do feel better for not having secrets. I don't tell my family because it would upset them, and it is nice to have somewhere I can be totally honest.
At any rate, perhaps we'll discuss moving forward another time, but right now he seems to respect my need to step back a bit.
Dinah
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