Posted by Tabßitha on October 29, 2002, at 1:43:24
In reply to P.S. Tabitha.... » Tabßitha, posted by jay on October 28, 2002, at 17:15:07
Jay, your last post did not seem argumentative at all. I understand you're going through a hard time, and my trying to take the woman's perspective on this just didn't go over too well. If you don't find my gender-biased opinions useful, I'll keep them to myself.
Rejection is painful, there's just no getting around that. Oddly I often find it more painful in the early stages of an infatuation than later on. Try not to read too much into this one though. Just because she doesn't want to date you right now, for whatever reason, and was rather graceless about telling you, doesn't mean you're not desirable. You just never know what somebody's romantic "type" is, and there's no point in taking rejection as saying something about your worth or attractiveness. You just don't fit her pattern is all. Maybe she only dates older men, or Norwiegians, or guys with six fingers on one hand, or who knows. Try not to take it personally. Easier said than done, I know.
Keep your head up, you'll get through this.
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