Posted by monkeypaw on May 7, 2003, at 16:14:35
In reply to Magic potion, posted by whiterabbit on May 6, 2003, at 23:43:33
You have once again put a smile on my face. I am so glad to hear that you are over this man. It took me a lot longer than a few weeks or months. So what now for you. I to had no money no savings and was not "allowed" to work. I also did not want the house. But I also knew that for my own well being and sanity that I had to get out of that house. I could not bare the thought of staying in the same house with that lying cheating man. The house was to be put up for sale. You said that you would get half of the house. Heres is something that helped me move on. His lawyer drew up a pre divorce settlement. We knew what the equity in the house was. So prior to the divorce being final I was given a check for half the equity in the house. I got more when the divorce was finalize. I Felt so good when I could find my own space and get away from him. I don't know if this is an option to you but it might be worth looking into. You don't need the stress and constant slaps in the face that you continue to get. I hope that this help. I know that you will be a stronger person if that is possible when your out of the house and this man is no longer a part of your life. The best of luck to you. I know you will do well for yourself.
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