Posted by noa on June 7, 2003, at 16:42:45
In reply to Re: UPDATE (long) » JohnDoenut, posted by mmcasey on June 7, 2003, at 13:12:28
Hey, MM.
Sorry if I didn't "notice" your absence. I haven't been participating as frequently here, myself, and I tend not to pick up on who is here or not here from week to week.
The fact that you are eager to wait and see if life will get better is a great sign, I think.
It sounds like you are greiving the breakup, even though, as you say, it is one you initiated. I think, as you say, they are always hard anyway. If only because it is a loss of what you had WANTED the relationship to turn out to be.
And of course the change in therapists is a big loss, since you really trusted the previous one. Sigh. That is hard. But you sound like you know you have to be patient and allow yourself to adjust.
Good luck with the GREs!
Hang in there.
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