Posted by a very little sphinx on June 25, 2003, at 10:00:34
In reply to Re: Suicide condolences - Eddie, posted by wendy b. on June 25, 2003, at 8:42:46
dear Y,
There aren't any words. You try to think of some but there are none that are applicable. It's nameless, answerless. To say anything abrupt at all is less indemnity than insult; but those thoughts are far from your mind I'm sure.A lot of times we place ourselves in the past when things this horrible occur. We try answering questions that again have no answers; what if, what could i have done, why?
There are no answers to these questions, and the more we go back to them, the more we hurt. Only know that even if we struggle forward, if the best we can do is step forward lightly, even as we look back, that is all that can be asked from us. And eventually, we grow stronger.
If I could say any one thing that would be of some consolation, I would, maybe these words are some, but I doubt the power of words in a situation like this... feelings are much stronger than words, and feelings always win.
My thoughts are with you.
....yr name here.
poster:a very little sphinx
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