Posted by lil' jimi on August 4, 2003, at 10:10:26
In reply to new roomies » lil' jimi, posted by yesac on August 1, 2003, at 16:30:44
> Well, they both seem really nice. A guy and a girl. It's hard to say what will happen. Things with my old roomates went okay for a while, but then for unknown reasons there was a downturn, and I just felt really uncomfortable with them after that. We didn't talk, except for "hi". I didn't want to be around when they were. I hoped when I got home that they wouldn't be there. Basically.... I really just don't want things to turn out like that again. I want to feel comfortable in my own home, you know?
>
> I don't know how to get to feel comfortable with them.well, maybe chat them up a little
... about how:
you're feeling,
it's not because of them,
don't want them to take it personally,
you're just not feeling so good right now,
sorry to be a bother,
thanks for their understanding ...... sort of a pre-emptive-like apology
... show that it's not about them
... et cetera ...
... maybe?(om ah ra pa cha na dhi)
~ jimp.s. i'm lost in my Inbox here and now i'm going through a lot of older stuff here because i can't figure out what i've already replied to and what i haven't ... sorry
~ j
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