Posted by Pfinstegg on November 17, 2003, at 16:22:27
In reply to Re: Well, I'll tell you what.... » judy1, posted by Dinah on November 17, 2003, at 15:49:14
I'm so glad you got rid of the biofeedback guy. I think he showed his problems and limitations right off by calling your own therapist a "narcissist". This is just NEVER done and is very unprofessional- not to mention uncalled-for. Really, on what possible basis could he say a thing like that?
As to the brains- they're still right there and functioning- and you have every right to enjoy them- they're YOURS! When your husband tries to make sure you are hearing him, it is probably because your feelings are in high gear, making you distracted and less inclined to focus on your immediate surroundings, or on everyday family matters. Happens to me.
Is your son about 12 now? I think he would love to know that his intelligent mother is reaching out for something more for herself in life- just when he is about to begin doing the same for himself. My son is 27 now, but he told me a year ago that I inspired him, during his teen-age years, by learning and trying new things when he was growing up. He was so forgiving and accepting of the turmoil in my emotional life- he just seemed to focus much more on what I was trying to do, not on whether I was always successful or not. He actually said one time, a year ago, "it's OK, Mom, when you get depressed. I'm sorry you have to get that way, but I"m strong enough to bear it". I felt terrible that he did have to bear it, but I did believe him that he was strong enough. My big job is to get as strong as he is!
And, look, Dinah, your therapist is gone this week, and you only mentioned it in passing. You must be so much stronger and steadier to be thinking about possible career moves rather than the just the pain of his absence. I know you miss him a lot, but it's obviously not the only thing you are thinking about, this time.
As one of your PB companions, I'm still excited that you are thinking about education and career plans!
Pfinstegg
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